The life is a mystery that is yet to be solved by anyone. We cannot predict the feature and we should never repent on the past. The present is the time where we put in our efforts and of course we dream towards the future.


However, I understand it isn’t very simple. There are complications and that come as the hurdles in life. People often get stuck or unable to move towards their goal because of only one reason that is a lack of motivated lifestyle. Lifestyle defines a person and you must understand that comes from within. If you are stuck by the hurdles in life and unable to find the motivation then here are the 10 tips that may help you to get the desired motivation and urge to move forward.

  1. Realistic

This is the foremost quality that one must have in their life. If you are realistic enough then you can see the world and life with open eyes and can judge it better.

  1. Belief

You need plenty of belief but not on others but on yourself. I understand that you might say that self-believe can be ruined after hurdles, but I suppose the thing that gets crashed in hardship is the ego, overconfidence and I will never Fail attitude of person. So, you need self-belief to move on in life.


  1. Positivity

The positivity around yourself can motivate you. You know and understand that the people associated with you can motivate you and make yourself comfortable. This is the biggest advantage that you enjoy if you have the right people at the right time.

  1. Perception

You must develop the correct perception in life. Your positivity drives you towards success if you have the positive and focused perception about the life.

  1. Winner

You need to believe that you have been, you are and you will always be a winner and not a quitter. Many hurdles come on the way of a winner, the job of the champion is to do overcome them with smile and ease and move towards the success.

  1. Experience

You might have a bad experience in life. But, trust me there is no experience that bad or good. All the experiences are your treasure and wealth and you must use it very properly to get benefit from it.

  1. The Bigger Picture

The bigger picture is the focused towards the success of tomorrow and you must be very much focused towards it. The better will be your perception on the big picture; the faster you will be motivated.

  1. Let it go

If you are losing something that may not be valuable enough for future then you must let it go. You may feel that it is impossible to leave it at present, but the key of motivation is to be wise and enlightened and you must let it go.

  1. Newness

Bring the newness in life. You can go to new places, meet new places and many more. The more new and fresh things will come, the better will be your lifestyle.

  1. Fun

This is also very much required in life. If you love fun and enjoyment then the negative thoughts cannot catch you for a long time and you get self motivation.


Motivation is not limited to living life or similar stuff.


By running my own business i find it very challenging to motivate others like I am motivated. Especially when its not their business on the line and they are just getting paid to do a job!

There are many other small things associated with it. It does not matter where you are, all you need is motivation to perform better. At your workplace, you will find many people getting discouraged to work. Being a colleague or manager, it is your responsibility to motivate them and help them to regain their confidence back. It might sound very tough to achieve this but in reality it is not. You just need to speak to them in order to motivate them. Here is how you can motivate people at your workplace.

Here are my tips to help you motivate others:


  1. Discuss with them

It is very much required to understand their problem in order to give them any suggestion. You should speak with them with ease and start a discussion. However, I would suggest not to jump to the topic straightway instead develop your discussion gradually to make him comfortable.


  1. Be friendly And Approachable



It is very important to be friendly with them in order to discuss their problems. Remember no one would agree to open up with you unless you are at the certain level of friendship with them. It might take some time as well. But make sure you do not hurry to talk about the problem just like that. It might not get no results and might embarrass the person as well. I have seen people becoming too frank while discussing. It is not a good option either. You should show the respect towards the other person.


  1. Share your experience


Make sure you discuss your past experience with them. Tell them about the situations you have faced and how you overcame it. Make sure it is in relevance to his or her problems. The irrelevant discussion might just irritate the person you are talking to.


  1. Give your suggestions

 Your suggestions will be welcome only when you have had a fruitful discussion. Giving suggestions without even knowing the problem is immature and unnecessary. So, make sure your suggestions make enough sense to the person you are talking to. Also, you must understand that you are making valid points. While drawing any suggestion make sure that you don't say anything blunt. Diplomacy is the best possible way to convince the other about your points. Even if the person is making clear mistakes, you must not say him on his face.


  1. Do not disclose to others

 Your suggestions and the problem you have shared to each other are not disclosed. The main aim of motivating the other person is to inject confidence and sharing the details to others may just result in the opposite to him or her. So, if you are looking to build the self confidence in him or her then respect the privacy. It will also give the much required trust on you.

You should always be ready to take up the responsibility to motivate others. It also motivates you in other way and give a lot of self-satisfaction. I also offer amazing coaching services to help you and your team reach the level you desire.



A house is always beautiful and is cared. When it comes to decorations of the house we often feel the need of master plan for beautifying the house. Every one of us does not have big house, but that does not mean that you can't decorate it well. I have seen many small houses which look utterly beautiful!

So even though i don't live in a small house however i helped my girlfriend in renovating one and I can tell you that there are small things that make huge difference in house decorations.

I decided to discuss today tips that need to be followed for decorating your small house place to help all my fellow readers:

  1.  The very first thing that you can work on is the living area. The living area can be segregated into three parts constructively to make an impact. Make sure that there are multiple mirrors aligned so as to light the entire room. The furniture used should be small in scale.
  2. Next thing that holds a huge importance in small rooms is furniture. It is better to use multifunctional furniture. These give two advantages. The first is the space it saves and the second thing is that it is very attractive as well. It gives a perfect finishing to your room.
  3. The color and the walls should be very effective as well. Dark colors wall in small rooms should be avoided. The light color rooms look brighter and spacious. Also, it is advisable to keep the wall less designed. Heavy designed rooms generally appear smaller than they are.


I have often heard that the room is small and all the furniture is so big. Well, from interior decoration point of view that is the right choice. It gives the room more spacious look, but that does not mean that you can everything big and fill the room. That is not the best idea as well.

I just helped a client of mine that has a limousine company with an amazing website and great limo rides (he even took me out on his stretch limo) but their choice of color for their home was very depressing.

It is always important to understand the requirement of your house. A small house does not need the biggest sofa in the market. Instead, cool armless chairs with exposed legs would fit more than a lavish sofa in a small house.

The lighting of the house is very important. The more the natural light circulates in the room, the beautiful the room looks. The bright shine has plenty to appeal in a small house. While choosing the color of the house, it is best to pick the monochromatic color would serve the purpose better.

The most important part of the decoration is the flow of light. So, any furniture that is blocking the way of light or wind should be removed. It is important to make things simple and lightweight in smaller rooms. The window curtains should be the very light that gives luminous effect.

Light window treatments like Roman Shade can also be opted for the windows. Table Lamps and floor lamps find more relevant use in the smaller houses than the overhead lighting of traditional style.

The decoration is not a simple thing; it is also a science. There are many things that should be considered before decorating the houses. For smaller houses, I would recommend, to go for something which is soothing and space savings.


There are many people who are fond of traveling throughout the world. I have seen many people who are on vacation in every six months. They do gain travel experience and witness many places around the world. However, when it comes to the travel experience, there are very few who get unique travel experience.

What is unique travel experience?


This is something every tourist should look for!!

Visiting a country and witnessing the famous sites can give you amazing memories but the unique experience of the traveling comes with unique traveling and that matters the most. This is what I have experienced and look forward to always.

Here are few points that can help you to gain unique travel experience.

Understand the local culture and people

This gives immense pleasure and different experience. If you are in the foreign trip then try to know the local people. You get a different side of the experience from them. The local customs and cultures are also equally fascinating to know and understand. If you are unaware of the language then your tour guide can be helpful for it. But make sure, you bring some of the heritage and traditions of the place along with you from the place you visited.

See the local sites

local site

I must say, it is the best part of any trip. Tourists generally visit the places which are very famous. However, the real fun is to visit the local places which are not included in the international tourist attraction maps. There are many attractions in the smaller cities nearby which can give you a complete new experience. Suppose you are visiting Greece, then you should look for the smaller cities where many archeological wonders are present of the ancient era in the outskirts of Athens. These places will not be visited by most of the international visitors, but the locals can tell you some exciting places to visit.

Out of Season

Another unique experience can be achieved by traveling in the out of season. You will always get some dramatic and enthralling experience while visiting a country in off the season. Everybody knows the beauty of Iceland in summer. But have really experienced the beauty of it in winter. The flowing waterfalls look pretty amazing, but the frozen one could be even more exciting. All you got to do is to do something that others do not. Traveling is fun but doing it differently can be exciting and unique.

Be Prepared

When you are looking for some unique travel experience, make sure you are well prepared. You should do a lot of research on the internet about the country and know about the local places. The common search about the places may not yield many results, but keywords like unique, different and others shall give you lot of desired results. You should also know about the safety and political conditions of the country. It is a foolish idea to explore an interior city of Mexico which is known for drug mafia or weapons. So, make sure you are visiting the right place with a different approach to gain unique travel experience.


In this article i will address an important issue in our society of emotional breakdowns.

It is very important to walk along the path of the hard work and achieve something you have dreamt of. But that is not easy. You are going to get plenty of hurdles that can eventually stop your way. I have seen people breaking down after the sudden demise of loved ones or after meeting accidents. The challenges start when we start accelerating in our life. The biggest challenge that we face is emotional heart breaks or sentimental issues. These are tough to battle also, as you need to fight with yourself.


However, that does not mean you will lose in the battle. If it is tough, then you need to change the approach of analyzing it. All you need is a key to break it. Emotions are always heavy and they never let any person to grow freely. If you are in the race then you just can't let it go. The tragedy that has struck you down is the key resource while fighting the lone battle. Make it your inspiration and try to get motivated. Believe me, sorrow and anger (but in control) can become the two strongest weapons of a successful person provided they use it wisely and properly.

If you are in deep mental trauma then you have to come out it. The best thing that you can do is to get yourself involved in life. If you are sitting idle, then you can never come out of any tragedy. Start participation in creative things but most importantly something that you like. You need to give yourself the chance you deserve to move forward and win. I have seen things start getting normal once you start doing things you love. Suppose you love to play some snooker or listen to some urban pop. It could be very helpful in regaining the feet.

When it comes to emotional problems, you must understand that all the problems are in your brain and they are actually nonexistent. To fight it, you must understand that you basically need to throw it from your mind. You just have to declassify the problems in your brain to non -problematic matters. You have pretty much won this battle then. The next thing that you would love to take care of is strengthened will power and mind. You need to have the intentions to fight with your thoughts and win. It needs strength both from inside and outside. But everyone has the capabilities to do it. There is no losing in this battle. You eventually win it someday or the other. But the matter is to win it as soon as you can do it.

The emotional problem generally fades away in some time. They are never so strong to fight the self confidence and zeal of a person. However, you need to make sure that they are gone before they even try to dictate you. Emotions are beautiful; they inspire people and never make you buckle up and stop you from achieving something.

Here a short video i recommend showing how we can fight these emotions.